There is no shortage of complaints
when it comes to giving up sins and the struggle which ensues between
individuals and their nafs, as well as Shaytaan.
This battle is inevitably on-going – till our dying day.
There is no other way out, except to show the courage and bravery
that every Muslim does have – when it comes to Pleasing Allah
Yet another widespread weakness is that of Haraam fantasizing.
Young and old, married and unmarried – thousands upon thousands,
succumb to their runaway imagination when it comes to fantasy world
and this in turn leads to even graver sin.
Allah Ta’ala granted us the power of Imagination for a beautiful
purpose; but most people today utilize this imagination in filthy
thoughts. The following is actually drawn from my Malfoozaat. It
is an extract from one of the kitaabs. It is a prescription which
I have given to many who have complained of the same. Alhamdulillah,
it has been a means of cure for many. May Allah Ta’ala make
it a means of cure for all that have this ailment.
“Haraam fantasizing is the spiritual disease of almost every
person. It is abuse of the great, wonderful and amazing gift of
Why did Allah Ta’ala give us this gift of imagination ?
The imagination has been given to us so that it may be used to
ponder over the Qur`aan Sharif, which entails stories of past nations
and verses upon verses of Jannat and Jahannum and accountability.
This is imagination was to be used for the purpose of taking lesson
and strengthening our Imaan. It was to be used as a catalyst towards
The imagination was not given to us so that we may indulge our
nafs in filthy thoughts.
One of the main reasons why both men and women have this problem
plaguing them, is due to their indulgence in lustful gazing.
After having cast filthy gazes at ghair-mahareem , or watching
porn movies or paging through porn magazines, or reading explicit
romance novels, there is desire and craving for more. Since ‘more’
is generally not possible … since the person may be married,
or the object of one’s desire is a film star or supermodel
or a Miss Universe or Mr. Universe, and there is zero chance of
meeting the person, the person tries to satisfy these shahawaat
(desires) by fantasizing.
But fantasizing is not going to satisfy desire. It will only increase
desire. The person’s sickness will increase. His physical
health will inevitably also suffer.
When the desire to indulge in Haraam fantasizing comes into the
heart, then take your imagination to the Day of Judgement; stand
before Allah Ta’ala’s Seat of Judgement and begin accounting
for all your actions in this world. Think of how you will account
for and what you will say to Allah Ta’ala when all these filthy
thoughts will be presented to you.
Allah Ta’ala states in the Qur`aan Sharif :
“WHEN THE SCROLLS ARE LAID OPEN.”
[SURAH TAKWEER 81 :10]
“THIS OUR RECORD SPEAKS ABOUT YOU
WITH TRUTH : FOR WE WERE WONT TO PUT ON RECORD ALL THAT YOU DID.”
[SURAH JATHIYA 45 :29]
Even though Allah Ta’ala is All-Knowing and well aware of
all our actions, He has established a law whereby every action and
every detail of every action be recorded and thereafter presented
to us on the Day of Reckoning – in favour of us or witness
Otherwise take your imagination for Haj : Picture yourself at the
Multazam, making Tawaaf, making Sa`ee; picture yourself at the Raudha
Mubarak, conveying Salaam to Rasulullah (sallallahu alayhi wasallam),
or take your imagination to your Qabr and the events which unfold
in the grave after death. …Insha-Allah, this will a means
of defeating nafs and Shaytaan as well as obliterating a filthy
If you find yourself still weak against the demands of nafs and
whisperings of Shaytaan, then immediately occupy yourself in that
which is ‘mubaah’ (permissible). Begin conversation
with your parents, or with brothers and sisters, or phone a good,
pious friend, or listen to some Qiraat or Deeni talk… Occupy
yourself in that which is Halaal and mubaah; otherwise nafs will
ravage your heart and destroy your peace of mind and lead you to
even suicidal tendencies.
Added to this, consider filthy thoughts as pigs. Just as we show
aversion and absolute disgust on seeing a pig, so should we be disgusted
with dirty thoughts – which fall in the same category as pigs.
Both are Haraam (forbidden).
Furthermore, Haraam fantasizing leads to the evil habit of self-gratification,
because there is no Halaal avenue to satisfy one’s desires.
This is a rather disastrous weakness amongst the youth and one should
ponder over the various harms which are too many, and these harms
are spiritual, physical and psychological harms.
Satisfying one’s desires by masturbating is not permissible
even if a person does not have the means to marry. Allah Ta’ala
mentions that those who do not find the means to marry should remain
“And those who do not find the means
to marry, should remain chaste until Allah gives them resources
by His Grace.”
Remaining chaste is thus a Divine command which is compulsory to
comply with – therefore we will find the Ahadith presenting
prescriptions to remain chaste (lowering the gaze, fasting, etc.).
As a prescription, the following harms should be read and re-read
if need be, until it is understood that the harms long term are
not worth the gratification that comes with the sin.
Some Spiritual Harms :
- Taufeeq of doing good deeds is taken away. The
person is deprived of Tahajjud, of Tilawat of the Qur`aan Sharief,
of associating with the pious, etc.
- The person is deprived of knowledge and finds
an aversion to people
- The most dangerous is that the person will not
be able to remain steadfast on Deen. (Allah Ta’ala protect).
- Besides this, a person who satisfies his evil
desires in this manner is cursed according to Rasulullah (sallallahu
Some Physical harms :
The following physical harms have been recorded by highly qualified
Hakims, the equivalent of specialist doctors.
- The bladder becomes weak and this leads to problems
in respect to taharah – Wudhu/ salaah and other Ibaadah.
There are many that are suffering with involuntary urinary and
seminal discharges due to the indulgence in this sin, and they
write mentioning the difficulties that are thereafter encountered.
- It also weakens the nerves.
- It causes some limbs like the legs to shake
- It causes pain in the vertebra column, the spinal
column from which semen is ejaculated. This pain creates crookedness
and twisting in the back.
- It creates weakness in the brain and weakness
- It weakens the sight and reduces the normal
limit of vision.
- It causes a person to become old before time.
- It decreases the natural resistence of the body.
- It causes harm to the four principle organs
in the body : the heart, brain, liver and stomach.
- It weakens the fine nerves and veins of the
sexual organs, resulting in impotency.
- Excessive loss of semen is in reality excessive
loss of blood. In later years, it can be that such a person will
not have the ability to father any children.
- It causes an excessive loss of sperm by way
of nocturnal emission (wet dreams).
Some Psychological Harms :
It leads to
- agitation and irritation over trivial matters,
- lack of confidence,
- disinterest in studying
- and desire for isolation.
Much more can be stated in respect to the harms of this sin. So
contemplating the above, should give every incentive to give up
the sin. No one would like to contend with any one of the above
problems and yet just one evil deed and the person has invited waves
of calamities upon himself.
If evil desires still get the better, then Nikah is a simple solution.
Where the evil desires are so difficult to suppress that the person
engages in Haraam then Shariah says that it is Fardh for the person
to marry. This is, of course, for those who the ability.