Don’t be alone with any ghair-mahram. Rasulullah (Sallallaahu Alayhi Wasallam) had said: “No man is alone with a strange woman, but Shaytaan is the third among them.”
Rasulullah (Sallallaahu Alayhi Wasallam) had also mentioned : “Do not enter on strange women (i.e. women not lawful), for verily, Shaytaan moves in any one of you like the movement of blood (in your veins).”
In fact, Shaytaan, himself, tendered the following advice to Hazrat Musa (‘Alaihis Salaam) : “Beware of sitting with a woman to whom you are not related. I am her messenger to you and your messenger to her.”
Shaytaan whispers and creates suggestions in the mind and heart. His encouragement could then lead to a greater sin.
The Western norm of employing young, beautiful, attractive secretaries, receptionists, etc. with whom bosses, managers, directors, doctors, etc. are in seclusion with, so often in their offices, has seen large numbers of them involved in illicit relationships.
Having followed yet another cancerous inclination of the West, many Muslims have also fallen prey to the same illicit love affairs in associating with the ghair mahram women they employ.
If due to circumstances beyond one’s control, a person has to work in such an environment where there is much intermingling of sexes, then one should exercise greater precaution, lest one should slip…Where the ground is slippery, even an elephant can slip.
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